Hello

[missingllama]

Serial killers are people too. They like killing, they get penalized for it most of the time, but they like it so they do it often.

Cannibals like eating people, they get penalized for it and frowned upon for it, but they like it so they do it often.

[Anastasia]

Mm yeah, but they're hurting people and worse, but how do people who enjoy sex hurt people?

[missingllama]

It's just indecent. They're frowned upon because they're doing something that society generally thinks of as unacceptable. Reading books? Fine. Sleeping around with other people without a care? It's showing that you've got no self-respect for yourself. All you care about is sex, sex, sex, guys will only care about you for your body, etc.

By calling them sluts you're degrading them too, just by using that name itself.

[Anastasia]

I know that but it's just easier than writing women who enjoy sex- which I have also used

It's not indecent, that's just society's view. And it's unfair

[missingllama]

They're not respecting themselves. They might not be hurting others necessarily in each case, but they're hurting themselves.

Most of the time people labeled as "sluts" are doing unprotected sex 24/7. She's got no respect for herself and she lets it all hang out in the hopes of attracting all the male attention she can get. She's practically offering up her body to anyone who wants it and she'll let anyone do it with her.

Enjoying sex? Fine. Maybe there's nothing wrong with that. Going around and even doing it with other people who are already in a relationship, all the time, and letting anyone with sexual reproductive organs into you? Not fine.

They're probably STD-ridden, too, especially if they don't practice safe sex.

[Anastasia]

That's really unfair, lots of people have STDs because of many different reasons
Maybe some people are hurting themselves, but then shouldn't we help them, not label them?
I have more to say, but is okay if it waits till tomorrow? I'm on iPod and it hurts my thumb to type so much :/

[missingllama]

That's really unfair, lots of people have STDs because of many different reasons
Maybe some people are hurting themselves, but then shouldn't we help them, not label them?
I have more to say, but is okay if it waits till tomorrow? I'm on iPod and it hurts my thumb to type so much :/

Yeah, and because they're sluts is why sluts have STDs.

They're hurting themselves, but you just said it's a perfectly healthy lifestyle. Which is it?

I know that but it's just easier than writing women who enjoy sex- which I have also used

It's not indecent, that's just society's view. And it's unfair

Also, I thought about this for more than five seconds and I've realized we may not even be talking about the same thing. Women who enjoy sex and sluts are two different things.

And I wouldn't just call them sluts like that because if you really respect them, then you're disrespecting them by calling them sluts. Just because it's easier to say doesn't make it okay. "Negro" is easier to say than "African American," but it's become a term of disrespect and a racial slur. It's not okay.

[DunDunDun]

Why not? It doesn't change their love for you.
How come men are ultimately allowed to do it?

It doesnt change how much I would love her, but, you know, I'm just not overly comfortable with the idea of someone sleeping with my wife. Especialy if it was more than one person. Thats my wife.

And I dont think anyone should be really sleeping with someone they dont honestly love. For me, theres no point to it. Its meaningless. And it has to be meaningfull. IMO. I dont speak for anyone else, as they would have different opinions etc. I would personaly be hurt if the girl I yarded with left me.

[DunDunDun]

Do people had this thread or somthing =(

[Anastasia]

Oh sorry, I've been meaning to post but I've had a limit on certain sites, like this, youtube tumblr, and I've running out of it before posting plus I found this article a few days ago and I wanted to read that as well-I have exams rn, 4 hours of it today sigh, but my next exam isn't for a week, so I'll have time aha xD
Cause yeah, I think we're getting pretty misunderstood

But as a quick point, I think that if a women enjoys having sex often, as has it without hurting other people or herself (so she isn't destructive and stuff) and is having safe sex, then she shouldn't be called down on it, as it's her choice, and rather healthy choice of life style.
But if a women does in a destructive manner-maybe she wants attention, or is guilty or something, etc, maybe hurts others while doing it, doesn't always have protected sex, then maybe instead of jumping to insulting them, we should try and help them. Like try to help them resolve their problems.
idk if that makes sense.